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Child Abuse and Mental Health Survivors Information - Issue #81

When I'm healed everything will be great and other lies we tell ourselves

Child Abuse Survivor
Mar 24, 2023
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This Instagram meme has been rattling around in my head this week.

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So many survivors live their lives as if they are waiting for the day when healing “arrives.” I’m truly not even sure what that means anymore. When people ask me if I consider myself “healed” I have to stop and ask more questions about what they mean. Too many people define healed as reaching a state of being where the abuse and mental health struggles never impact me and life is just peachy.

Life doesn’t work that way.

Which is the good news. We don’t have to wait until we are healed to enjoy parts of our lives, and we can stop blaming ourselves for not being healed yet.

Life will have ups and downs. Events from our past will come back and impact us all in different ways at different times. Most of all, we can stop feeling guilty every time we have a bad day. We all have bad days.

Give yourself a break, continue to work on improving yourself, but don’t wait for that to be finished to do the things you want to in your life. It might be too late then.

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